The big Chop

You know how when you get a new haircut, it takes a while for it to “settle in”? (I make it sound like moving into a new neighborhood or starting a new job, hahaha.)

But you know how there’s typically that period best after a new cut when you and the new hair are getting to know each other better on your way to eventually figuring each other out?


Well, mine’s finally settled in, and I love it.

It feels so terrific having hair graze my shoulders again and not feel like it’s just in the way. It’s also really good to have an actual style again, too. I finally feel like my hair isn’t in transition to something or somewhere in the between stages. It’s like, finally! — I’ve made it to point B.

Captain apparent suggestion #1 to Smiling in Pics: just think of something funny. funguje jako kouzlo.
The style is called a long bob, or a “lob” for short. There’s a little bit of layering, but not a whole lot, and that’s on purpose. I have a small wave on the top layers, and I know from having many, numerous awful haircuts that if there are too numerous layers when my hair is take on length or shorter, I end up with an unintentional mullet.


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Side note: If you’re gonna rock a mullet, best be damn sure it’s intentional; otherwise, you’re in for a world of hurt. Jen říkam.

If you have wavy, textured or curly hair and you’re thinking about chopping off a significant amount, I think it helps to consider these few things…

1. Squirrel away 4-6 inspirational photos (not just one!)

First, before you do the deed, it helps to collect a few style inspo pics on your phone or broken from magazines.

I repeat: not just one. I think the sweet spot is between 4-6 pics, all on different people, and all with a similar vibe.

Why so specific, K-Dawg?

Because this way both you and the stylist can much more easily identify what it is exactly about the style that you like.

I think it’s also essential to remember that if you’re giving a stylist examples of someone else’s work, they’re going to interpret the haircut in their own way. Hair stylists are artists, after all, and each person will put their own stamp and special sauce on the cut.

These are the pics I brought to my appointment. They’re all by Sal Salcedo, a stylist in southern California I found on Instagram.

2. Jot down everything you know (and want your stylist to know) about your hair

Unfortunately, this is a lesson I learned the hard way over the course of numerous awful haircuts!

So…your stylist can’t read your mind.


And just because you give them a few pics doesn’t imply that’s what you’ll end up with. In my experience, the much more information I give a stylist about my hair and how it behaves, the better off I’ll be in the end.

You can bring a Post-It, or type everything into the notes app on your phone.

Here’s the list I took to my appointment…

Straight on the inner layers, small wave on the mid and outer layers

Right side has a tighter wave pattern than left

Like to air dry overnight, rarely use a hair dryer, but will use a curling iron 4-5 times a week to add waves/texture

Prefer causal, “cool girl” style, not too overly done

Cowlicks/unruly baby hairs in front

“Ramen noodle” gray hairs on top

Left side has ends flip out, best side has ends that flip in

Important: need to have it long enough to put up in a ponytail for working out

I wash my hair hair every day, conditioner wash every other day (non-negotiable at the moment)

3. Peep their Instagram page

Many hairstylists showcase their work on Instagram now. I found the stylist who did this cut, Maya Lowe, using a hashtag search of #marinhairstylist. I scrolled through her page and liked that she shows lots of clients with wavy and curly hair, and shows different lengths and different styles.

Maya also messages selfies and has natural gray hair, and I got the sense that she’d understand the challenges I’m having with growing out my gray.

And, LOL, some people will laugh, but I also liked that she has pics of her two cats in her feed. I felt that she would “get me” in that way, too.

4. Ask if they do dry cuts

A dry cut is when the stylist doesn’t wet your hair before cutting. They cut your hair when it’s clean and air dried.

In my experience, it’s THE most significant indicator of whether a stylist really understands how to cut wavy, curly or textured hair.

You see, when you have wavy, textured or otherwise “not stick straight” hair, the curl pattern is apparent when your hair is clean and air dry, and so when a stylist cuts it while it’s in that state, they can see your natural hair pattern better and maximize what you’ve got.

Just IMO, at least.

5. Ask if they offer adjustments

How a stylist does your hair in the beauty salon will always differ from how you do it at home with your own products and styling tools, so ask if tHej’ll to úpravy poté, co opustíte kosmetický salon a několik dní žili s vlasy. Líbí se mi, když to dělají stylisté, protože prostě nikdy nevíte, jak vaše vlasy budou jednat, jakmile je ve vašich vlastních rukou, víte? Nevyhnutelně, moje bude vždy mít WONKY kus (nebo dva nebo tři) zde a tam.

Také se zeptejte, zda účtovat poplatek za to, protože některé stylisté nabízejí zcela bezplatné úpravy.

Kapitán zjevný návrh # 2 pro usmíval se v pics: přemýšlet o zmrzlině. (Přemýšlím o Baskin-Robbins pralines a smetany.)


Celkově, jsem opravdu spokojen s mým řezem. Potřeboval jsem velkou změnu a velká změna je to, co jsem dostal!

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